Welcome to BibleBum where we are exploring the entire Bible in one year to better learn how to follow God’s instructions and discover the purpose for our lives. The BibleBum blog uses The One Year Chronological Bible, the New Living Translation version. At the end of each day’s reading, Rob, a cultural history aficionado and seminary graduate, answers questions from Leigh An, the blogger host, about the daily scripture. To start from the beginning, click on “Index” and select Day 1.
Paul wrote this letter to the Colossians while imprisoned in Rome. He sent the letter to Colosse with Onesimus and Tychicus (See Col. 4:7-9), who were also carrying the letter to Ephesians (see Eph. 6:21-22).
Questions & Observations
O. (Ephesians 5:18b-19, 20): I would say this is a good charge to be playing Christian music at all times. We have a great station in Orlando, Z88.3! On a different note, v. 20 answers something I brought up a long time ago, that about when you pray, you only have to say “in Jesus name” if you ask for something. Here it says that you should also when you give thanks. I just think it’s important to give glory to Him every chance you get.
Q. (5:20-33): Rob, it’s OK, I’m not on my women’s equality throne. I used to cringe at this Scripture because I never wanted to be considered less than a man. I think the bigger picture here is our relationship with Christ. He is the one we need to respect, honor, obey, love, worship, etc. And, he gives us love and blesses us in return. He really does that without us doing our part. Likewise, if wives respect, uphold and love their husbands, just as we should with Christ, our husbands will be better people, just as Christ is better if his believers are virtuous. After all, together, we are His body.
V. 33 hits the core, I think, of what men and women struggle with in their relationships. Men love themselves, i.e. can have egos. If they love their wives to the same degree, they will have a loving relationship. If they put themselves before their wives — note Christ washes the disciples feet and he endured a grueling crucifixion — they will likely have discord. I have seen many relationships where if the man has a strong ego, the wife is usually quiet and obedient, not a light like God desires. And, I think some wives may struggle with the respect virtue. We have a mind of our own, and especially in modern times, we are nearly equal in prosperity. So, when entering a marriage, you both have to think of each other and not make major decisions by yourself. I struggle with this, as you can probably tell, because I didn’t marry until I was 31 and had my own ways. I was always headstrong though. Anyway, I think some decisions he makes are wrong, but I know that he is human. Also, I have learned that if I don’t agree with him, I shouldn’t just be quiet. I talk through it with him so then I have understanding of his thought process and then, I can fully respect him. This scripture describes more of working together and submitting to one another — not that husbands dominate their wives — like v. 21 says. Note that it says, “submit to one another.” It doesn’t say just “women submit.”
A. You’ve hit upon the key to this section at the end: the idea is mutual submission, and the husband leads in that he is the first to submit. That, of course, does not make him perfect, but it certainly demolishes any foolishness about this being a “men should dominate their women and the women should just take it” kind of passage. The man should lead the relationship (and the wife should follow) in his willingness to die for her- to be willing to die to his own desires (especially control over her). Many times men mistake the meaning of this passage (as women do) and say things like, “she won’t submit”. But that’s not what Paul says: he says she should submit- after YOU DIE TO YOURSELF! That is radically different, and it is a shame to me that more people of both genders do not understand the true meaning of this passage.
O. (6:1-3): Note to parents that it says children “belong to the Lord.” That means we should cherish them treat them with respect. I have never heard v. 3 before. I’ll have to read that to my children. I have a great aunt who will be 104 in January. I think she wishes she hadn’t been so obedient. Just kidding. She is lonely. All her friends are gone.
Q. (6:5-9): Rob, here’s a good one for you. Explain slavery in the pre-Civil War U.S. in regards to this Scripture. The war ended slavery because the Union said slavery was bad. Here, the Scriptures say is just a way of life.
A. Ok, here goes: the slavery system in the ancient world was a system of slave debt, which frequently ended in the freedom of the slave. People were frequently sold into slavery to settle debts in lieu of going to prison- and this type of slavery was rarely for life. Now this is to be contrasted with the life-long, horribly abusive slavery associated with the slaves who were kidnapped from Western Africa during the colonial period of the United States and the Caribbean. Slavery within the colonial system was for life, with beatings, brandings, separation of families (something the Roman system would not have allowed), and, don’t forget, it would have been entered into via kidnapping. A master could also hang or beat an American slave to death, something that would NEVER have been allowed, even in barbaric Rome.
Something important to note here is that, despite Paul’s writings, there were people on both sides of the colonies (England and America) that took up what they saw as God’s command to abolish a slavery system that was exploitive and not necessary any longer. You can read about one of the most famous, an Englishman named William Wilberforce- his story is told in a fairly recent movie called Amazing Grace (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0454776/?ref_=nv_sr_1) which I would highly recommend to learn more about the reasons behind the abolition movement.
O. (6:8-9): Again, I would like to point out that God says everyone is equal here, no matter if you are a bazilliionaire or impoverished. Remember where we read in the OT about how the tables will be turned when everything comes to light. The overbearing people — rich, powerful (if used in the wrong spirit) will be shadowed by those they dominated on earth. I think that is so cool that we will see our reward. The test is to stay humble and on the right path.
Q. (6:11): What is the God’s armor?
A. It is a series of reminders that Paul presents using the metaphor of a solider putting on his armor for battle. Paul is providing a reminder that there are spiritual, not merely physical, dangers in the world. The devil has you in his crosshairs, Paul is saying, so you need to be prepared to deal with the spiritual realities of the world that we cannot see. His advice is to remember the ways that God has provided for our spiritual needs, from the Bible, to guidance for our faith, to instruction in righteousness, in order to stand against the devil’s actions, and not retreat. He is telling his people to stand firm!
Q. (6:18): What does it mean to “pray in the Spirit”?
A. I think he means using the Spirit to guide our prayers and give us insight into God’s will for us.
Q. (Colossians 1:22): There is so much depth to Jesus’ crucifixion and resurrection. I have never thought of myself as holy and blameless, without fault. That is hard to imagine/accept.
A. Well, if its any consolation to you, your blamelessness is not your doing, but rather God’s. Amazing Grace indeed.